How to visit the grave

1. Recitation of Prayers After the initial greeting, recite:

   • Darood Sharif
   • Surah Al-Fatiha
   • Surah Al-Ikhlas
   • Ayatul Kursi

   These recitations are fundamental and help in seeking blessings and peace for the deceased.

2. Dua for Forgiveness After the recitations, make a heartfelt dua (supplication) asking for the forgiveness and mercy of Allah for the deceased's soul. This act of prayer is a core component of the pilgrimage.

Timing of the Visit

There is no specific time or day mandated for visiting graves. You can perform a grave pilgrimage at any time. However, visiting graves on Fridays is considered particularly meritorious. Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said:

"Whoever visits the graves of his parents or one of them every Friday, he will be forgiven and will be counted among those who treat their parents well."

Emotional Expression During the Visit

It is natural to feel sorrow or to cry when visiting the graves of loved ones. However, Islamic teachings encourage moderation in expressing grief at the gravesite. Hazrat Abu Huraira (RA) narrated an instance where the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) wept while visiting his mother's grave, and his companions also wept. The Prophet (SAW) said:

"I asked my Lord for permission to visit my mother's grave, and He granted it. So, visit the graves, for they remind of death." 

(Abu Dawud)

Additional Supplications

Prophet Muhammad (SAW) also recommended specific prayers when passing by or visiting graves. Abdullah Ibn Abbas (RA) narrated that the Prophet (SAW) would say:

"Assalamu Alaikum Ya Ahlal Kubur; Yagfirullahu lana walakum, antum salafuna wa nahnu bil ashar." 

(Peace be upon you, O inhabitants of the graves. May Allah forgive us and you. You preceded us, and we are to follow.)

By adhering to these practices, Muslims can ensure that their grave pilgrimage is conducted respectfully and spiritually, in accordance with the teachings of Islam.

Conclusion

Grave pilgrimage is a revered act in Islam that connects the living with the deceased, offering prayers and seeking mercy for those who have passed away. It is a reminder of mortality and the transient nature of life. For more detailed Islamic practices and articles, visit BengaliVogue.com.

References:

• Sahih Muslim
• Sunan Tirmidhi
• Abu Dawud